feat(middleware): harden routing with fail-closed policy, custom subdomain management, and perf fixes

- Fix IPv6 host parsing with _strip_port() utility
- Remove dangerous StorePlatform→Store.subdomain silent fallback
- Close storefront gate bypass when frontend_type is None
- Add custom subdomain management UI and API for stores
- Add domain health diagnostic tool
- Convert db.add() in loops to db.add_all() (24 PERF-006 fixes)
- Add tests for all new functionality (18 subdomain service tests)
- Add .github templates for validator compliance

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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+version: 2
+updates:
+  - package-ecosystem: "pip"
+    directory: "/"
+    schedule:
+      interval: "weekly"
+    open-pull-requests-limit: 10
+    labels:
+      - "dependencies"